Uh... *toes dirt a little with sneaker*.... have any gals on here tried any personal stimulant options for potential improvement of libido? As much as I'm icked out by commercials featuring glowing couples raving about K-Y's latest flame-covered packaging, I have to wonder if that stuff works. Or maybe herbal remedies. Viagra. Anything.
I don't want to admit how long it's been since I've had sex, and I actually share my bed with my husband just about every night. So frankly, I could use all the help I can get, here.
Embarrassedly yours for someone who once had sex with above husband at a truck stop,
A more holistic approach maybe? Damiana, Red Clover, Red Raspberry Leaf, Motherwort, Lemonbalm.
All of these VERY good for the female body.
tea, tincture, extract or an infusion in honey or molasses.
I prefer the honey, I can take that daily without whining.
The effects will start to show in about two weeks. And of course, with herbs, it's all about consitency.
Just an idea. Make sure it'll be all good with your system. research, talk to doc and so on.
Hope this helps!
Not sure about the stimulating factor of some of those products, but I avoid the silicone based ones---sticky eeewww. A naughty column in a local paper recommended a water based brand called Sliquid.
We too have been pretty bad about finding time for Business Time. Some folks say scheduling it and making the time for it works, and makes you want more :)
Not sure about the libido thing either. What usually get's you going? Do more of that.
Damiana, Fo-Ti, Red Raspberry Leaf, Saw Palmetto Muira Puama, and Dandelion leaf. Maybe a pinch of Cayenne Pepper. the magic of herbs is CONSISTENCY. make a tea of this (Equal Parts, and an extra part for the Muira Puama and Damiana) 1 tsp for every 8 oz. of hot water. steep covered for fifteen minutes. Drink 2x daily. of course talk with a naturopath near you and or a Certified Master Herbalist.
Good Luck, Be well.
so... how is the adventure?